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« on: May 14, 2012, 10:42:54 AM »

Princess Diana’s former lover Hasnat Khan has spoken of his fury after being told by police his phone may have been hacked in the months before her inquest.

The 53-year-old heart surgeon – whom the Princess called her ‘Mr Wonderful’ – said the disclosure left him feeling ‘robbed’.

Detectives told Dr Khan that his name and mobile phone number were found in paperwork uncovered during the Operation Weeting phone hacking inquiry.He used the phone until late 2007, when media speculation over whether he would ‘tell all’ at her belated inquest in March the following year was at its most intense.

‘To know that someone has been listening to your private messages is awful,’ Dr Khan said. ‘It is absolutely terrible. It feels as if you have been robbed. We live in the UK. We are supposed to have civil liberties. I feel really, really violated. I am very angry.’

In a rare interview, Dr Khan, a discreet figure who has resolutely avoided the limelight, also spoke of his dismay at royal author Penny Junor’s controversial new biography of Prince William, in which Diana is bluntly cast as manipulative and mentally ill.

Speaking to The Mail on Sunday in his home town of Jhelum in Pakistan, he said it was his belief that Miss Junor was ‘rewriting history’.

And in a fierce defence of the Princess, he declared: ‘There is no way at all that Diana was mentally unstable. There is nothing wrong with expecting your husband to be faithful and being angry when he isn’t.’

In particular, Dr Khan said he was angered by Miss Junor’s assertion that Prince Charles resumed his relationship with Camilla Parker Bowles only after his marriage foundered irrevocably. ‘Diana had every reason to believe that Charles and Camilla never stopped seeing each other,’ he said.
‘There was no doubt about it in her mind at all.’

And revealing for the first time details of an extraordinary encounter between the Princess and Camilla, he said: ‘Camilla came up to her and said, “Charles is going to propose to you.”  ‘She told Diana before Charles proposed to her. Afterwards, Diana thought, “Why did this woman know before me?” Obviously they were confiding.

‘This is 100 per cent what Diana told me. She thought it was very odd. I would be very surprised if I was going to marry someone and my fiancee’s ex-boyfriend came to me and said that.’

Although Dr Khan refused to give direct evidence to the Diana inquest, the jury heard the full statement he had given to British police four years earlier. He didn’t expect to hear from Scotland Yard again, but in January this year he received a letter from officers at the Specialist Crime Directorate asking him to contact them.

He was told that his mobile number had been found and that he may have been hacked. Further details were not forthcoming, but he was asked if he wanted police to investigate further. He was also given a phone number for an office set up by News Corporation – publishers of the News of the World – for victims of phone hacking. Officers from Operation Weeting have contacted hundreds of phone hacking victims or likely targets after finding their names in notebooks seized from private investigator Glenn Mulcaire, who worked for the now-defunct tabloid.

Now awaiting the outcome of the investigation, Dr Khan said he would donate any compensation he might receive to a heart unit he is setting up to treat impoverished children in Pakistan, which is expected to open near Jhelum later this year. ‘I will seek the maximum compensation I can get and I will give it towards the hospital we are building here,’ he said.

It was this hospital that he and Diana dreamed of building together and now, 15 years after her death, their plans are finally coming to fruition.  ‘Diana was one of those people who didn’t just talk about things,’ he said. ‘She was proactive. She would go out and get it done. I think this hospital would be ten years old by now if she was alive. She did good things because she wanted to, not because of her  status. She had an inner desire. It  genuinely came from within her.

‘You could tell. She didn’t want anything back. ‘I have no doubt that Diana would have been involved in this. It wouldn’t have mattered whether we were together or not.’

Dr Khan spoke warmly of their two-year relationship, recalling how they had seriously considered beginning a new life in Pakistan before ultimately deciding it would be impractical. ‘She couldn’t have lived in Pakistan at that time – her children were too young,’ he said. ‘She couldn’t live in two places at the same time, spending a month here or a week there. But I think now William is married and Harry is grown up, she wouldn’t have a problem with it.

‘But at the time, that [William and Harry] was the main issue. Obviously you don’t expect her to leave the boys behind, and the boys couldn’t have left the UK anyway. ‘In retrospect, there are one hundred could-have-beens. You never know. She could be living very happily and married and having more kids, with me or with someone else. It could have led in that direction [for us]. I try not to think about these things. I can’t change anything now.

‘I think mainly the problem was that even after two years, the relationship wasn’t leading to a meaningful progression or conclusion, and that was the main stress on both of us. Everyone wants a relationship to be going somewhere.’

Just weeks before her death in 1997, Dr Khan met Diana for the final, bittersweet time, at Battersea Park in South London. It was at this meeting that she ended their relationship. He tried to telephone the Princess on August 30, the night before she died, but she had changed her telephone number and they would never speak again.

Of that painful last meeting he will say only, with strong understatement: ‘It was not at all happy. But that is all forgotten now. I think my mind has blanked a few things out.’

Dr Khan has always eschewed big-money offers for the full story of his royal love affair – and always will.
He has also turned down a request to act as script consultant on the upcoming film Caught In Flight, with British actress Naomi Watts as Diana.

With a wry smile, he said simply: ‘I just filed the letters. It is a thick file – bigger than my PhD thesis.’ By the time the phone hacking scandal reached boiling point, Dr Khan had already long stopped reading the newspapers. He moved briefly to Malaysia, where he engrossed himself in his work as head of a cardiac hospital and spent weekends fishing and walking in the mango groves.  ‘I just completely blanked it out,’ he says. ‘It isn’t just now. It was very soon after [Diana’s death]. I read a few things initially. Some were completely untrue. Some were a third person speculating.

‘I thought, a person has just died, for God’s sake. Leave a little more time for people to get over the grieving and everything else. I found it quite distressing so I stopped reading anything.’

From the very beginning, Dr Khan was disinterested in the spotlight. Famously, he found no allure in Princess Diana, the starry, jet-setting celebrity. But Diana, the altruistic, caring woman, unafraid to dirty her hands for her charitable causes, was another matter.

Their paths first crossed in Sydney, Australia, in 1989 but they grew close when they met by chance six years later at the Royal Brompton Hospital in West London, where Diana was visiting a sick friend. 

‘She didn’t want anything back. I don’t believe she ever did things like the landmines campaign to get media attention for herself,’ he said. ‘She didn’t need to. She would get attention anywhere, all she had to do was wear a nice frock or get a new hair-do. It was the same with the patients and the hospitals she visited.’


Clearly frustrated, he added: ‘When people write about someone like Nelson Mandela, for instance, they keep details of his private relationships to a minimum. Instead, they look at the good work he has done.

‘There are so many other aspects to her, good and bad – like me. Everyone is like that. It was a genuine desire to make a difference – there’s no doubt about it.’

During their relationship, Diana visited Dr Khan in Pakistan and studied the Koran. She talked about them moving to Pakistan together and discussed  in detail the complexities of her marriage. Since her death, the surgeon has been widely portrayed as the love of her life and the man who – had she lived – could have saved her from her personal demons by marrying her once her fling with Dodi Fayed fizzled out.

When I presented this image to Dr Khan and asked him if he felt it was a heavy psychological burden to be thought of in this way, he replied: ‘It is – of course it is. But at the time, we didn’t know what was going to happen. We couldn’t see the future.’

Fifteen years on, his ardent admiration of Diana is impossible to disguise. Since her death in 1997, he has had two relationships. Neither lasted.

The first was an arranged marriage with 29-year-old Hadia Sher Ali, the daughter of a noble Afghan family.
Shortly after it ended in 2008, he told The Mail on Sunday: ‘Sometimes I feel like screaming. There have been very bad times. I have moved on, but it keeps coming back.’

He later fell in love with Alexandra Panagoulas, a Greek heart doctor 21 years his junior. The pair enjoyed a long-distance relationship, with Alexandra training in Scotland and Dr Khan working in London. He was determined to finally put his past behind him. ‘We tried to see each other at weekends but then I would be on call and couldn’t come up,’ he says. ‘Slowly, the distance took a strain on the relationship. It was a disappointment, of course, because there were no personal problems there. ‘She took up a training post and we slowly just drifted apart. It was purely because we were at two different stages of our professional life. She is quite ambitious and that’s fair enough. ‘I can’t sit down and say, “Don’t pursue your career,” because I was like that. It would be hypocritical.’

Aside from brief spells in Malaysia and Dublin, Dr Khan has worked in Britain for the past 20 years, previously at the Royal Brompton Hospital and more recently at Basildon Hospital in Essex.

He now plans to leave Britain on a long sabbatical to oversee construction of the Abdul Razzaq Medical Trust hospital with fellow cardiologist Dr Azhar Kayani, the Pakistani president’s personal physician. If it is a success, he will leave Britain for good.

‘I definitely still hope to marry. I don’t know if it will happen when I go back to Pakistan. We will see what happens but I would love to have a family and kids. It would be great. ‘People say you never grow up unless you become a father – that’s what I’ve heard.’

Today, though, his ‘baby’ is turning the tentative plans he made with Diana into a reality. Twenty miles from the nearest town, the hospital will house Pakistan’s first charity-run cardiology unit, where children from the desperately poor surrounding villages will receive life-saving surgery. ‘[Diana and I thought] in the future it would be great to set up a hospital in Pakistan, and also provide support services for women,’ he says.


‘She had first-hand knowledge of what was going on in the country. ‘She was particularly keen to work  for women’s rights and to help  rape victims. My side was to build  a hospital.’He firmly believes that, were Diana still alive today, she would have been at his side for the opening – and perhaps on a more long-term basis.
Asked if he has any regrets, however, he replied: ‘No – none whatsoever.’ After a pause, he added thoughtfully: ‘The only thing is that it is different when you are with people, and when they are suddenly not around.

‘All of a sudden, they disappear and you know you will never see them again. That is very difficult.’

Details of the charitable trust that will fund Dr Khan’s heart unit are available at www.arwt.org


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« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2012, 11:46:01 AM »

Thanks for posting this Little Star! What a wonderful man - and good to get a more realistic insight into Diana ...
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« Reply #2 on: May 14, 2012, 12:33:38 PM »

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« Reply #3 on: May 14, 2012, 01:29:59 PM »

smart piece of PR to raise funds for the hospital.

at least he's using diana's name for a good cause. i hope that the hospital will benefit many in pakistan.
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« Reply #4 on: May 14, 2012, 03:45:59 PM »

Take that, Sally/Penny/Camilla!   A medical doctor who personally knew Diana states that she was not mentally unstable.     Beer   

Thank you for posting this, Little Star.
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« Reply #5 on: May 14, 2012, 04:58:55 PM »

Take that, Sally/Penny/Camilla!   A medical doctor who personally knew Diana states that she was not mentally unstable.     Beer   

Thank you for posting this, Little Star.

Yes, because people who continually make themselves throw up, cut themselves, throw themselves down flights of stairs among other things, are clearly not mentally ill. It's completely obvious that both Charles and Diana were mentally ill for much of their marriage.  For the record, I don't view 'mentally ill' as some kind of insult.

Let's consider for a second who Mr Khan's source is - Diana.  Did he know or ever even meet Charles or Camilla?  He's evidently believed every word Diana said to him, and considering some of the absolute rubbish Diana came out with (Charles having an affair with Tiggy anyone?  Or Tiggy aborting Charles's baby?) that's saying something.  If Tom Parker Bowles came out and said that his mother is misunderstood, she's the kindest woman in the world, she wasn't having an affair with Charles when he married Diana and didn't take up with him until several years into the marriage.  What would happen?  Would people believe him?  Of course they wouldn't.  His version of events would be ridiculed, because of his relationship to Camilla.  In much the same way Mr Khan's version of events should not be relied upon as anything other than what Diana wanted him to think.
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« Reply #6 on: May 14, 2012, 05:20:16 PM »

Thank you for the update on Dr. Khan.i wish him all the best in providing healthcare to the poor in Pakistan.  Thumb up

As for Diana's mental state , IMO the truth lies somewhere in the middle of all of the latest stories.
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« Reply #7 on: May 14, 2012, 05:20:41 PM »

Wow. All I can say is GO DR KHAN GO!!  This is exactly what Viscountess Bangor wrote a few years ago in her excellent biography of Diana.

Charles MIGHT have stopped sleeping with Camilla at some point, but he continued his emotional affair with her. It really never ended.

At the ball on the night before the wedding he basically ignored Diana and spent the evening in a corner chatting with Camilla. Diana drove home to Althorp the next morning in tears and told her father that she did not want to marry Charles, Lord Spencer urged her to hang in there.

Diana also overheard Charles in the bathroom shortly after Harry's birth assuring Camilla of his eternal love.  Sad

Diana's emotional instability and insecurity are not in question. But can anyone say that their post adolescent(as Diana was) selves would have been able to handle the situation that she found herself in any better?

I honestly don't know what she might have done differently under those circumstances. Thank goodness for SOMEONE who knew her well coming to her defense at last!  Thumb up
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« Reply #8 on: May 14, 2012, 05:38:38 PM »

You can see why he was her "Mr. Wonderful"..........he comes across as being a very nice guy - and it's really too bad that circumstances at the time didn't work to their favor.  I hope his new hospital is a great success.
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« Reply #9 on: May 14, 2012, 05:45:31 PM »

Hmmmm... what was he talking about, the phone hacking or the Penny Junor book?  I wonder if he's worried about what they hacked, and is coming out on the offensive. 

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« Reply #10 on: May 14, 2012, 06:10:48 PM »

Hmmmm... what was he talking about, the phone hacking or the Penny Junor book?  I wonder if he's worried about what they hacked, and is coming out on the offensive. 



You and me both, Bessie.  He's either worried about what they overheard, or he's seeing the compensation pound signs.


Charles MIGHT have stopped sleeping with Camilla at some point, but he continued his emotional affair with her. It really never ended.

At the ball on the night before the wedding he basically ignored Diana and spent the evening in a corner chatting with Camilla. Diana drove home to Althorp the next morning in tears and told her father that she did not want to marry Charles, Lord Spencer urged her to hang in there.

Diana also overheard Charles in the bathroom shortly after Harry's birth assuring Camilla of his eternal love.  Sad


We can never, ever know if this is really what happened.  Everyone has their own spin on events, there are no unbiased mediators standing by to prove or disprove the veracity of any of Charles or Diana's claims.  People will be arguing about these things in 20 years time and we'll still be no closer to knowing the truth of what actually went on.

In terms of what Diana could've done differently - maybe not marry him in the first place?  She had free will, she'd had a good education (although she failed all her O Levels twice so maybe it wasn't that great), there was no one standing with a gun to her head as she said her vows in St. Paul's.  If Charles had done all those things to her before they married that she claims he did, who in their right mind would go through with it? 

She had an awful marriage, was deeply unhappy and clearly had significant psychological problems, but she should never have gone on public television and slaughtered her children's father in front of millions of people.  In doing so she only ensured further and deeper hurt and unhappiness on her sons.
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« Reply #11 on: May 14, 2012, 06:31:09 PM »

Hmmmm... what was he talking about, the phone hacking or the Penny Junor book?  I wonder if he's worried about what they hacked, and is coming out on the offensive.  



You and me both, Bessie.  He's either worried about what they overheard, or he's seeing the compensation pound signs.


Charles MIGHT have stopped sleeping with Camilla at some point, but he continued his emotional affair with her. It really never ended.

At the ball on the night before the wedding he basically ignored Diana and spent the evening in a corner chatting with Camilla. Diana drove home to Althorp the next morning in tears and told her father that she did not want to marry Charles, Lord Spencer urged her to hang in there.

Diana also overheard Charles in the bathroom shortly after Harry's birth assuring Camilla of his eternal love.  Sad


We can never, ever know if this is really what happened.  Everyone has their own spin on events, there are no unbiased mediators standing by to prove or disprove the veracity of any of Charles or Diana's claims.  People will be arguing about these things in 20 years time and we'll still be no closer to knowing the truth of what actually went on.

In terms of what Diana could've done differently - maybe not marry him in the first place?  She had free will, she'd had a good education (although she failed all her O Levels twice so maybe it wasn't that great), there was no one standing with a gun to her head as she said her vows in St. Paul's.  If Charles had done all those things to her before they married that she claims he did, who in their right mind would go through with it?  

She had an awful marriage, was deeply unhappy and clearly had significant psychological problems, but she should never have gone on public television and slaughtered her children's father in front of millions of people.  In doing so she only ensured further and deeper hurt and unhappiness on her sons.
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Of course she should not have married him. But as a sheltered, rather naive and underreducated teenager whose only real experience of romance was through Barbara Cartland trash novels, the onus of the blame cannot be placed on Diana, imo.

The blame should MOSTLY be placed on the worldly experienced thirty-something year old man who was too much of a pansy to stand up to his father and tell him that he could not marry Diana. Period.

Because Charles not only had "free will" as well...he had experience and many years to have given him insight into his own emotional makeup and needs...unlike Diana.

The Panorama interview was one of the worst mistakes Diana ever made. It set off a chain reaction of events that culminated in her death in a Paris tunnel in Aug 1997. I am convinced she'd probably still be married and alive if she had not done that interview but again...Diana was reacting to the Jonathan Dimbleby interview that Charles did FIRST...hinting that he had never really loved her and had been pushed into the marriage by Philip. She was reportedly at the zenith of paranoia and frightened of a whispering campaign that had been instigated by Charles friends-including Camilla- after the prank phone call disaster(where Diana had been caught making nuisance calls to Oliver Hoare) and reportedly instigated by Nicholas Soames that she was a madwoman. She thought she might even lose her children as a result.

In retrospect of course she should never have done that interview and she probably would not have...if Charles hadn't done HIS first!  Real mad
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« Reply #12 on: May 14, 2012, 07:12:08 PM »

I agree that Diana was emotionally a child when she entered that marriage.  It was more a parent child relationship on her end which she was desperately seeking.  She had no idea Charles was a child, too, nor could she.  As he was 33, I think he should have been the one to grow up first. 
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« Reply #13 on: May 14, 2012, 07:40:51 PM »

Hmmmm... what was he talking about, the phone hacking or the Penny Junor book?  I wonder if he's worried about what they hacked, and is coming out on the offensive. 

You and me both, Bessie.  He's either worried about what they overheard, or he's seeing the compensation pound signs.

He stated quite clearly that he will be donating any compensation to charity.

Moreover, if the NotW hacked my phone I'd be suing them for everything I could get, it's a disgusting breach of privacy.  Dead

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« Reply #14 on: May 14, 2012, 10:30:35 PM »

Take that, Sally/Penny/Camilla!   A medical doctor who personally knew Diana states that she was not mentally unstable.     Beer   

Thank you for posting this, Little Star.

Yes, because people who continually make themselves throw up, cut themselves, throw themselves down flights of stairs among other things, are clearly not mentally ill. It's completely obvious that both Charles and Diana were mentally ill for much of their marriage.  For the record, I don't view 'mentally ill' as some kind of insult.


Diana was not doing those things at the time she was involved with this man, or he would not have had such a high opinion of her.   She had moved on, matured, healed, and was looking to the future.   She was over Charles and no longer trying to gain his attention.   But for some reason, Penny wants to bring it all to our attention yet again. 
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