To dismiss the idea that divorce does no damage to children is dangerous. If you want to dismiss the affect of divorce on children there's something wrong with you.
Yes, there are some instances where divorce is beneficial for all. However, there are situations where divorcing does damage the family like adultery or because they're bored or some silly excuse that people like to make up to make themselves look better. People who divorce because they've "moved on" or are bored are selfish to the extreme. Marriage takes work and patience, but many people are too self-centered to do so.
Nobody's dismissing anything, there are too many absolute statements in this thread. And I actually take offense to the bolded. Where in the world did you come up with that? Honestly, I take offense at your whole post.
Sorry Maria, I just saw your post. Back on topic. Sorry again.