Amalia seems the type for special treatment, she simply seems to have her mothers vibrant personality. That paired with her special status will make her centerstage, where ever she is.
However children can be brutal, if she doesn't pair her specialty with being a fun and nice person, they will not accept her. At this age children are pretty immune to status, so Amalia will have to learn to be nice around other kids, because even if she gets dealt better cards by her teachers, the other kids will simply not play with her if they don't want.
However, she seems a nice little girl and I doubt she will have any problems.
Well, she is just a 4 year-old girl who has no idea she is a Princess, she just dreams about beeing a Disney Princess.