She seems to look worse this time around than during her first divorce.
Alex and Joachim's divorce was dragged out to the extreme because Marge wanted Fred to marry before they divorced so we have no real way of knowing when the divorce stress actually hit her and Joachim. Any obvious conflict and stress would have been hidden by the press and this not really documented as this divorce is.
Didn't she have Martin behind the scenes when she split up with Jokke? I am not sure (don't remember well) but he came on the scene very quickly.
Plus I think with Jokke they were in a "given frame". Their marriage might not have worked anymore but it all went the expected way afterwards. It was downplayed and very conservative. To her it was obvious that Jokke did not want much fuss and no details would ever leak.
With Martin (depending if he signed a pre nup) it is a different kettle of fish. Depending if she was clever enough to gag him or not he might write the tell it all book. Plus it is very humiliating if your husband turns up with your replacement only a short time later.
I think she did not "invest" that much with Jokke. They met, had a very short courtship, the Danes adored her and she loved her role as a princess. Conceiving was difficult and the marriage on the rocks, but she got a lot of positive press about being the perfect princess. It was very clear it would be a clear "not much fuss split".
This time it is very different. I think she worked very hard to keep Martin and it did not work out. The Danes are raising eyebrows and asking questions if the mom to the spare (five times removed) really deserves such a life style (house plus holiday home plus fancy car). Plus it Martin ever deserved such a life style. She is way more unpopular than she was back then. Plus Martin did not even have the decency to wait before moving on. This is like a public slap.