It would be absolutely fantastic if she neglected to invite Sparkles and Haz-been; especially since they snubbed her and other family members in favor of Oprah, the Beckhams, and the Clooneys.
Was Pss Michael of Kent the one with the racist past/snubs? If so, I doubt Sparkles/Haz-been would want to show up to the wedding but they must might out of duty
Yep, she's a very nasty sort of woman and if I were Meghan, I definitely wouldn't want her
at my wedding, but I always thought Harry was close with Freddie and Gabriella and would've invited them at least. There was a lot of furor about the Kents and Gloucesters not being invited to the wedding, but I'm not sure Harry or William went to any of the Gloucester weddings?
Does anyone know? I know Kate went to Rose's wedding but that was without William. I'm not sure how close they are to the St. Andrews trio.
So...the HRH Gloucesters and Kents did attend Harry's wedding but not any of their kids. As for your question about William & Harry's attendance at Gloucester and Kents weddings here's what I've found:
Earl of Ulster (Heir to Gloucester)--2002 at the Queen's Chapel St James's Palace--could not find a record either way about the boys
Lady Davina--2004 at the private chapel at KP--no royals other than her nuclear family attended as the wedding was very small
Lady Rose--2008 at the Queen's Chapel St James's Palace--as you mentioned Kate but neither of the boys
Earl of St Andrews (heir to Kent)--registry wedding in Scotland in 1988--I'm doubting the boys were there but I can't find sources. From the few pictures I've found just the extended Kent family.
Lady Helen--1992 at St George's Chapel Windsor--no info on the boys, but Charles and Diana were there
Lord Nicolas--2006 at The Vatican--no senior royals
Lord Frederick Windsor--2009 at Hampton Court Palace--neither of the boys attended
James Ogilvy--1988 in Essex--neither of the boys attended
Marina Ogilvy--1990 in Richmond Park(?)--neither of the boys attended
So if I'm right we are 0/9 for the boys and 1/9 for Kate. Of course 4 wedding were in the late 80s early 90s, 1 was abroad, and 1 was private so it's more like 0/3 boys and 1/3 Kate. I also don't think the boys attended Lady Sarah's wedding in 1994 or David's wedding in 1993. I think that's it for extended royals.