ITA, she looks relaxed and happy. It seems that she is much more comfortable with the "simple" things, such as meeting visitors, visiting hospitals, teaching children swimming. Attending big showy events doesn't seem to be her thing.Maybe that should be left to her husband, Caroline and the rest of the family.
it would be nice if they could made a arrangement about who shows up for certain events , according what is important to their individual preferences.
Maybe then Charlene could live a happy life again.