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I can’t make heads or tails of this “the wedding is off until I get a kidney” business. Is it the passive aggressive ransom it sounds like? Awesome start to a life together.
IMO if you want to be married to someone you make the wedding happen regardless of limitations imposed by health, money, time, etc. Think Beatrice and Edo, Philippos and Nina, and thousands of others who married during COVID restrictions. Using the limitations as reasons to delay reads to me as having prioritized having the day of your dreams over being married to the person you love. There's nothing stopping a couple from marrying in a simple ceremony in the midst of their troubles and then celebrating later when worries ease.
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Maybe (I hope) ML got some sense and decided to take things a bit slower.
That’s what I hope too. I would expect a health crisis to be the occasion for a quickie wedding, not an excuse for putting it off. Unless they are both realizing that this situation is unlikely to give either of them what they really want. Durek may want to wait until he’s healthy enough to really make bank from the wedding, ML might possibly be realizing that giving her kids a stepfather who talks to their dead father’s spirit might not be the best idea?
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anneboleyn
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If he wanted to, he would. Point blank.
I think the delay is because he wants a lavish attention seeking wedding.
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“And she will keep coming back to life, over and over again, because beneath the skin of this gentle human lives a warrior unstoppable.” - Annabelle M. Ramos
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I hope that the king holds on and enjoys good health because I think that without him, there might be few brakes on that relationship, and Goddess only knows what the shaman might manipulate Martha Louise into doing.
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loveofenglishtradition
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If he wanted to, he would. Point blank.
I think the delay is because he wants a lavish attention seeking wedding.
That would fit as he has representing himself in the past. But, even though nobody likes him (for good reasons) he is still a human being with a very serious illness. He had already a kidney from his sister in 2012 and it looks like the kidney doesn't work anymore, going thru dialysis 5 days a week is no fun! A dear friend of mine had to go thru this , had two donor kidneys, but finally died when the second kidney didnt work for her, at just 60 years old. The pity is that he is publicly making such a big fuss about it, instead of just keeping quiet about his health condition.
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I might be old fashioned but a divorced (and now widowed) mom of three and a sick shaman - do they need a huge "look at me" wedding? Even Charles tuned down a lot the second time around.
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I might be old fashioned but a divorced (and now widowed) mom of three and a sick shaman - do they need a huge "look at me" wedding? Even Charles tuned down a lot the second time around.
I agree. A small intimate wedding would be nice enough.
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They don’t need one but that doesn’t mean they don’t want one.
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January 25Shaman Durek Reveals Electrifying Remix EP To Debut Single “My House” ft. DJ Sneak, Blakkat & MoreShaman Durek has led a truly unique and remarkable career thus far. Being a 6th generation shaman, his teachings have impacted the masses, including Gwyneth Paltrow & Dave Asprey (Bulletproof Coffee). He’s also been inextricably tied to the rave scene for nearly 30 years, helping grow and promote parties from SF to NY, opening up others to experience the joy and excitement he gets from house music. He recently made his debut with his jackin’ house single with Green Velvet Flair titled, “My House”. It’s a tribute to the classic underground house roots of Chicago and Detroit that keeps you on your feet the whole way through. It also invokes an old moniker of Durek’s – The Jack Instigator – a nickname granted by the DJs from his eccentricity when MCing at the parties he would throw, notorious for keeping the people dancing (and off the couches) all night long.  - "Dancing to music unlocks certain aspects of our consciousness. It offers this experience of love and connection, and also can give us the strength to forge through difficult times. I wanted to bring this feeling back in the spirit of The Jack Instigator. So, when you listen to “My House”, or when you come to my house, you better dance!” – Shaman Durek- "it was an absolute pleasure to write some music and remix Shaman’s energetic message about the place we call “House Music” – DJ SneakNow he is a DJ as well. I guess that selling pebbles for profit doesn't bring as much money
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He's been huge in the dance scene for 30 years? How did we not know this before?!
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I find the hooded figures in the photo … um … unsettling … or worse. I’m sure what’s inside is equally horrid.
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The guys on his album cover are veiled .. what, they didn't want the association? LOL
P.S. "The Jack Instigator" seems a somewhat "instigating" handle for this hot mess
Love you, Harald and Sonja but please kick this Jack Ass to the curb!
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He's been huge in the dance scene for 30 years? How did we not know this before?!
Right?!? I asked people who are very knowledgeable in that genre, and all I got was "who"?..."what"?
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A sixth generation shaman? Is the whole family a bunch of cuckoos? If a generation is 25 years, that’s 150 years of nonsense. Derek needs to stop and ML needs to step away.
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I'm just happy for a long engagement with no wedding in sight. The more revelations the better, giving ML time to come to her senses.
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“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” -- CS Lewis
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