I think that there isn't much left that can shock the public about this family. Other than the fact that no one seems to be able to marry the person they actually love! Good grief, how many members of this family have sacrificed their happiness for the sake of the "firm". King Edward, Margaret, Anne, Charles, and I'm sure there are many more.
I don't disagree that while she is still married she shouldn't carry on in public like this, however, if she isn't happy get a divorce (it wouldn't be the first time!)
The tragedy in this family is how many people end up hurt and cast aside in order to keep up a false front which only crashes down harder in the end.
Good luck Anne, I hope you can find your happiness before its too late.
As far as I can see, Anne has married two men she wanted (at the time) and obviously fell out of love with them or became interested in someone else after several years of marriage. She and Tim Laurence supposedly were having an affair while she was still officially married to what's-his-name Phillips. Now she might be having an affair with Andrew Parker Bowles while still married to Tim Laurence. In my opinion, the tragedy in the family is that its younger members seem to think they can do whatever they want, without considering the impact on others.